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Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Shopping trip

First of all, I want to say thank you to all of you who commented over the last few days about the tornado.  I got a couple of e-mails and a text from blogger friends asking if we were ok, right after the tornado hit.  It makes me realize how comforting it is to know people who don't even know you, care about you.  And yes, this town was devastated.  It wasn't as bad as some places, but it is bad.  We did go out last night and look around on our way to pick up our Christmas tree.  Oh my.  Homes one block east of our house in town were destroyed.  Some streets are still blocked off.  Huge generators are running in one neighborhood to light up the entire area.  People have come in droves to help.  From other communities.  The Salvation Army posted on facebook the only thing they need at this point is canned goods.  They have enough of everything else.  Isn't it wonderful that throughout something like this, the good people stick together and help each other out?  I love that in a community.  And I am trying to visit your blogs.  I'm also getting ready for Thanksgiving...and as you know, I was out of town over the weekend.

The shopping trip.
Plans were made.  Dad was going to drive us to the designated location, we would hop in the drivers (Gloria) van and head to our selected shopping location.  However, first things first.  Dan's Donuts.   And Gloria was running a bit late, so Theresa brought the donuts inside while we waited.
 And Vickie just loves donuts on a stick (glazed, as I tell her), and she was waiting at her house, in another town, so I had to send her this picture for a tease. Not the one above, where it shows three donuts on sticks...but this one....
 that shows me eating HER donut on a stick!  That's just how we roll....lots of teasing and laughing.

We went to the outdoor mall in Ft. Wayne first. was so cold out.  We even had snow.
Then we went to the indoor mall.  We did not ride the carousel but I always think it is so pretty.

 As my Sister and I were shopping together (we break up into little grouplets of two, and meet up throughout the day, or we'd never get a thing done) we ran into Ann.  A friend of Vickie's (they used to work together and remained friends).  I was commenting to my Sister how it's interesting that Vickie, Theresa and I all know the people that each of us work with, or used to work with.
Theresa, Ann, Cindy
On the way to our motel, on one of the busiest intersections there is in Ft. Wayne, we noticed the lights were out.  We looked around and there wasn't any power in a lot of the buildings!  I got on my phone and saw all of the Indiana Weather Alerts on facebook!  Then I read, "......If you are in the Forth Wayne area watch out for some very slick roads, particularly icy and hazardous bridges and overpasses."  NOOOOO!!!!  We didn't even know it was getting bad outside!
 After last week, I have to admit I was nervous. And if we were staying at the motel we usually stay at, we would not have had power!  The only reason we weren't staying at the usual motel is because Vickie "made a mistake and booked us at the wrong motel." 
(I think that might have been a God thing!)

That evening at the motel, we were going to get in the hot tub.  Only we found out after checking in, there isn't a hot tub (sad face)  It was filled in.  They had a pool and a sauna (say soowwwwnaaaahh - that's what we called it!)  Our feet needed a hot tub!  So, Gloria was the only one that bothered to put on her swimsuit.  The rest of us grabbed a glass of wine and went to the pool to chat.  Ashley, the youngest of us, got in the sauna.  And had to be there....but I'm gonna try.   As it turned out, the water in the pool was very warm.  So Mom soaked her feet anyway.  Vickie, Theresa, and I sat at the table from whence I am taking the picture from. 

Gloria said, "Is the water helping  your feet?"
Mom, "what?" (it is kind of echo-y in the pool room)
Ashley pops out of the sauna room, which was in a corner and says loudly, "Good grief!  IS THE WATER MAKING YOUR FEET FEEL BETTER!"  Then closes the door and goes back in just as quickly. We all burst out laughing!
 That night...Mom and Gloria played dominoes while we sat around in our room, chatting, looking at magazines, watched tv, and sleeping.  We were asleep by 10:30.  Back in the days of the 1980's we used to shop until 10:30!!!!!
 Ashley and her lovely hair!
 Group photo.  I have a full blown view but I'm now allowed to show it because of gifts.
 Mom hung back while everyone else loaded the van.
 Theresa snuck inside too.  It was so cold out.
 Yes we take a car top carrier!
 hmmm....just realized Ashley is missing from these pictures.
 Where is she?  Maybe inside the van holding packages?
 We tend to have to do that when we pack up our purchases and overnight bags.
Or maybe she snuck back inside to warm up.
 You can tell we're all cold.
 Back inside for a couple of photo ops.
 Mother daughters
Mother daughter
 We had to go back to the outdoor mall for some more shopping.
But first, we were going to go to Dick's Sporting Goods, which isn't at a mall.  There was discussion as to who wanted to go to Dick's and who wanted to be dropped off elsewhere.  I told Mom if she didn't want to go to Dick's, I'd go with her elsewhere and she said,
"No.  I like looking at Dick's!"
Ashley made a comment...about what Mom said....and we all burst out laughing, like a bunch of school kids hearing the word 'dick'.  (sorry Mom, had to share)

Theresa decided to buy a huge turkey platter and they did NOT have a box to put it in.  So they wrapped it all up in paper and put it in this shopping bag.

 Do we have room for that bag?

After shopping, we went to O'Charley's for lunch and they were going to stuff us all into one booth.  Mom would have none of that!  She told the hostess that they would just sit over there, and off she went to sit in her own booth!  Gloria followed.....the hostess, a young thing, just stood there looking stunned.  I said, "it'll be ok honey, just go with it."  She then said, do you want me to clear off the booth behind them so you can sit closer together?  Someone in our group said, "naaah, we'll be with them all the way home. It's ok."

You know what..... rarely do any of us just shop anymore.  We used to.   We were talking about how when we were in our 20's and 30's we would meet up and just go shopping for something to do.  Like it was a hobby.  On this trip, we do shop for Christmas presents, and for ourselves, but we mainly go to be with each other.
It's tradition.
We're family... 
and we're friends.

Cindy Bee


  1. I nearly spluttered my coffee on the laptop when I read what Mum said!!
    Jane x

  2. LOL Jane! You made me laugh just now!


  3. Good fun! Glad you all got around safely. Everything is icy here today, even the expressway home from work was icy. Stay warm and have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

  4. What a funny & fun post to read . A tradition that has grown into a richer relationship together , making the shopping almost incidental. To bed by 10:30 ? boy do things change !

  5. Cindy, OMG...I wish I had been there when your mother made that funny. Yes, my girls and I would have laughed too. I know the trip together was more making memories and sharing than actual shopping....since you were done before 10:30:):) Blessings to you Cindy, xoxo,Susie

  6. Cindy, I had to write...please tell your mom she was a hit with my daughters....I told that story about her and we all had a great laugh. I hope you don't mind. Hope your turkey day was wonderful, mine sure was. xoxo,Susie

  7. Lol Susie!!! I will tell her. I had a wonderful turkey day. Where does the time go. Wanted to blog-no time right now.

  8. What a wonderful FUN trip !!! It made me smile to read this topic. Traditional family FUN thing is GOOD !!! Life with family is GOOD !!! Found my Gloria mom !!! Mr. Wolf and I are looking forward to visit her soon in Dec. Hope to see you, too !!! (^.^)v"""
    P.S. I feel so sorry about big tornado around you, I am so sorry, I was going to send you message, but my PC was broken and tried to send it from my i-phone, but hard to typing with cell phone. Hope the people in difficulties would recover and get back peaceful days as soon as possible…

  9. That looks really fun. How lucky you booked the wrong hotel.


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